MARYLAND'S LESBIAN, GAY, BISEXUAL AND TRANSGENDER
CIVIL RIGHTS ORGANIZATION
On gay marriage and other big issues, O'Malley plays backup to Cuomo

This post was written by Dan Rodricks, published in the Baltimore Sun

Given his role in New York's legalization of same-sex marriage, Andrew Cuomo might be the most celebrated governor in the United States at the moment. But watch out: Martin O'Malley, the governor of Maryland, has taken up his guitar to play with his band again, if only to show us he's not just a boring and cautious, middling politician with presidential ambitions.

Here's how reporter John Wagner put it three days ago in The Washington Post: "Instead of seeing his music as a liability, many around him have come to view it as a healthy, humanizing outlet for O'Malley, who, if anything, has grown a little stiff since moving to Annapolis in 2007."

 

The occasion for the story was a recent O'Malley's March performance for the U.S. Conference of Mayors in Baltimore.

I guess this is a good thing — Mr. O'Malley getting back in touch with his inner front man. The poor lad had to guide the nation's wealthiest state through the Great Recession, and that certainly would beat the Celtic spirit out of anyone who could claim to have one.


People close to Mr. O'Malley "have come to think he went too far in trying to sideline the music that so animates him," the Post reported.

Yes, there's no getting around it: Fronting O'Malley's March is the thing for which our governor is most recognized. The staff can list all of his "accomplishments" on websites, but there's nothing there to compete with spirited renditions of "Rattlin' Bog" and "Mickey Chewing Bubble."

Abolition of Maryland's death penalty? No.

Freeing an innocent man (Mark Farley Grant) from prison? No.

Legalization of same-sex marriage? No.

The purportedly powerful Democratic governor of one of the nation's bluest states — with Democratic majorities in both houses of its legislature — took one sustained stab at ending capital punishment, in 2009, and he hasn't returned to the battle since.

On extending marriage rights to same-sex couples, Mr. O'Malley is a nothing man. He supports "civil unions" instead. He takes the lame position of pledging to sign a gay marriage law if it passes, but does little to nothing to make that happen. (The effort failed again in the 2011 legislative session after being given good morning-line odds for passage.)

Of course, the governor and his handlers probably see all this as smart politics. He's on the record as being opposed to the death penalty; he needn't do anything else. (Doesn't even have to commute the sentences of the five remaining inmates on Maryland's Death Row.) And why should Mr. O'Malley, who might want to run for president some day, do something overtly pro-gay like taking the lead on same-sex marriage? Others will eventually get a bill to his desk.

That's all the conventional blah. It's the thinking of middling Democrats: Be cautious; balance the books; suck up to the business community; stay away from the hot-button issues — they just mean trouble.

But tell that to Andrew Cuomo.

The first-term governor of New York was the center of attention of New York's gay pride parade on Sunday. Here's a modern Democrat, and a Catholic of the same generation as Mr. O'Malley, who not only campaigned on making same-sex marriage legal but led the public and behind-the-scenes fight for its approval. And he did this with Republicans in the majority in the state Senate.

Mr. Cuomo was hands-on with the New York marriage bill from the start. A few weeks ago, he held a secret meeting with a group of rich Republicans who were sympathetic to the civil liberties at stake in the bill. He enlisted their help in winning over state senators of their party.

As the son of Mario Cuomo, he understood that Democratic politics, even with its new shadings, is supposed to be as much about conscience as about smart management.

In an account of the marriage bill's passage, The New York Times notes that, early in his tenure, Andrew Cuomo had managed to deliver an austere, on-time budget and a deal to cap property taxes.

"But," the Times reported, "[Mr. Cuomo] did not want those accomplishments to define his first year in office. 'They are operational,' he told his father. Passing same-sex marriage, by contrast, 'is at the heart of leadership and progressive government. ... I have to do this.'"

Martin O'Malley might be fronting his Celtic band again, but on the national stage of young Democratic governors with potential presidential aspirations, Andrew Cuomo just stole the show.

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Events
Date: June 08, 2013 - 09:00
Location: Baltimore

First Unitarian Church of Baltimore and Free State Legal Project present:

From Stonewall toSecuring Marriage Rights:
What Does It Mean for Us?
Exploring the Legal Implications of Marriage for Gay Couples

A comprehensive overview of legal marriage in the State of Maryland for gay couples. Whether you are already married or just considering, esteemed attorneys Susan Francis and Susan Silber will walk you through everything you need to know before and after you walk down that aisle. Beyond romance, learn what those 1000+ contracts and responsibilities actually mean!

Topics to be discussed include:

DOMA– What is DOMA & Challenges to DOMA; Federal protections outside of DOMA; Considerations when not to marry – (Medicaid, other public benefits, immigration, continuation of prior spousal benefits).

MD Law Overview – 1000+ laws. How protected under MD law? What are protections, benefits, obligations? What is the effect of the federal government not recognizing your marriage? What are the consequences of other states not recognizing your marriage? Strategies to protect your family.

Marriage – Family Law Issues. License – how to marry, what if married elsewhere, what if have a civil union; Pre-nuptial agreements = clarify marital v. nonmarital property, simplify divorce process, collaborative or mediation dispute resolution; Domestic Partnership affidavit– specific benefits.

Protecting our Families. Wills, trusts, health care directive, POA, DP Affidavits, DP or PreNup Agreements

Protecting our Children. Second parent adoption, birth certificate with marriage (full faith & credit issues), problems with de facto/third party parent, donors, surrogacy.

Divorce Issues. Length of marriage, maintaining ties & friendships, DOMA (pension, tax, alimony); dissolution of civil unions/domestic partnerships.

OtherMD Marital Issues. Insurance; Employment – public & private; FMLA; Real Property – Tenants by entirety; Public benefits – Medicaid; Name changes; Taxes – joint – imputed state income; estate; inheritance; alimony & QDROs; transfers between spouses; mortgage interest; tax credit programs; Military & veteran benefits.

 

Saturday, June 8, 2013, 9am - noon
Enoch Pratt Parish Hall, 514 N. Charles Street
Baltimore, MD 21201

The seminar is free and open to the public. However, space is limited, so please respond to office@firstunitarian.net, or call 410-685-2330 to reserve your seat. Participants are encouraged to submit questions in advance via email.

About the presenters:

Susan Francis is the Foreclosure Prevention Project Manager at the Maryland Volunteer Lawyers Service (MVLS). She formerly was an Associate at Silber, Perlman, Sigman and Tilev; and theFamily Law Research Specialist at the Administrative Office of the Courts, Department of Family Administration. She graduated from the University of Baltimore School of Law in 2011. She was a member of Law Review and the Omicron Delta Kappa National Honor Society for Leadership. She has interned at the Public Justice Center, the U.S. Attorney’s Office, the U.S. Department of Justice and the Annie E. Casey Foundation.

 

Susan has a B.S. and M.S. in Journalism from Ohio University. She served as Development and Communications Director for the Coalition on Homelessness and Housing for twelve years and was most recently the Development Director forEquality Maryland. She serves on the Board of Directors of Free State LegalProject and the Public Justice Center. She has co-written with Ms. Silber several articles on gay marriage for the Washington Blade, the Maryland Domestic Law Reporter, and the Equality Maryland marriage FAQs on their webpage, and has conducted various workshops on the intersection of family law and LGBT families. Susan and her wife, Sandy, were married in Ontario, Canada in 2004. susanfrancis@gmail.com

Susan Silber has dedicated her legal career of over 30 years to advancing the rights of all families, including a focus on same-sex families. Susan founded the law firm of Silber, Perlman, Sigman & Tilev, PA, which is a full service, community-based law firm located in Takoma Park, Maryland. She is an experienced attorney in family, employment, civil rights, and municipal law, and has served as the City Attorney for Takoma Park for 30 years.

 

In addition to drafting, counseling, negotiation, and litigation, Susan is an experienced mediator and collaborative attorney. She has assisted hundreds of people incooperatively forming their families (e.g., second parent adoptions, livingtogether contracts, powers of attorney, medical directives, and parenting agreements). Sue has been featured on national television and is a frequent guest speaker. She has spoken extensively on Lesbian and Gay parenting issues, including custody, adoption, alternative fertilization, surrogacy, and documents helpful in protecting unmarried and same-sex families. Susan was named a Super Lawyer by her peers in Super Lawyers Magazine for both Maryland and Washington, DC.

 

Susan is a member of the National Family Law Advisory Council of the National Center for Lesbian Rights, currently serves on the board of Equality Maryland and the Divorce Roundtable, and is a past president of the LGBT Bar Association of Maryland. She was recently honored for her distinguished service by COLAGE (Children of Lesbians and Gays Everywhere), GAYLAW (Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual,Transgender Attorneys of Washington, DC), and her synagogue Bet Mishpachah.Susan’s children have two moms. Her family has been featured in three books and was interviewed by Barbara Walters for ABC’s “20/20”. silber@sp-law.com

Date: June 09, 2013 - 12:00
Location: Columbia

Please join us the second sunday of every month for our Board Meeting.

 

Contact Vanessa, vanessa@equalitymaryland.org, for more information.

Date: July 14, 2013 - 12:00
Location: Columbia

Please join us the second sunday of every month for our Board Meeting.

 

Contact Vanessa, vanessa@equalitymaryland.org, for more information.